A few spring to mind: I am a sub so dominant women, confident women and being instructed. Bondage (on me). Long dark hair. Dressing up - Formal, uniforms (particularly cheer leaders), gothic. Playing with hair - done well on me and it's straight to subspace...ooo floatylight. Orgasm denial (on me again) Playful teasing. Games with forfeits.
Bondage - ropes or tape, tied and gagged on the floor or chair tied are my favourites
Shiny clothes, particularly sportswear - football shirts, tracksuits, satin jackets, rain jackets, plastic coveralls. An offshoot of this is padded down clothes, particularly gilet vests made from shiny materials. I like it when there is printing on the back too.
While it's not a personal fetish of mine, one of my favorite things to shoot is exhibitionist activities. The thrill of trying not to get caught and coming up with new and creative places to shoot is always a source of major excitement. Depending on the model I'm working with, I will often start the session with flashing in the grocery store while shopping for the cake ingredients.
Thanks, everyone, for replying to this thread, which has been sticky for weeks and weeks. There is a reason for that, as I'll get to soon in another post. But meanwhile, please do keep adding your deep insights into your other fetishes, and why you think you have them.
Bondage for me! Recently I have discovered I am attracted with wam mixed with bondage... ...I like always bare breast model (best would be if they're busty) and barefeet...girls in stockings and wearing sexy skimpy bikini are really interesting for me too.
Post orgasm torture is a must. Nothing beats being tied up so you can't move and having a gorgeous dominant woman go at you over and over while you scream out in pain and ecstasy begging for it to stop and it doesn't
Good Gawd, where do I start!! Uniforms, both normal ones and fetish, ie bank, building society, air hostess ones, school, nurse , but only the sexy ones, an actual NHS uniform does nothing for me, French maid, policewoman, but only the 1970s/80s style one with silver buttons, the current one is just not sexy at all, bridesmaids, brides going away outfits, formal suits, office suits. Also, very tight clothes, that are probably a size too small so the girl looks like she is almost bursting out of them, skin tight pencil skirts, or obscenely short ones
Heels, preferably 5/6 inch stilettos, boots, stockings, push up bras, g strings, pvc, tight shiny disco jeans/leggings, girls wearing glasses.
That's clothes out of the way, now onto other fetishes. Clothes ripping/destruction, spanking, bondage, bdsm, but never male submission, girl on girl, or female submissive, with male dom, wrestling, damsel in distress type scenarios, contrast between ordinary and everyday and erotic, such as the nice girl who is a bit shy, but very attractive, and has a secret, hidden kinky side, or an innocuous looking location, like a trading estate unit or shop in a nice little town, where kinky stuff happens behind closed doors!
Make up. I like the girl to be fully, and nicely made up, eyeliner, blusher, mascara, lipstick, I also like the squared off acrylic French nails, also, and I worry a bit sometimes about this, humiliation, ENF, I am NOT sexist or mysoginist in any way at all, but this does turn me on. Long hair is another, I find short hair on girls generally unflattering, although this is an attraction thing, rather than a fetish and physically, I like curvy, busty girls, not thin supermodel types, nor anyone overweight, a UK size 10/12 is my choice, and not too tall, as I like the girl to wear very high heels
- Ball gags - Bondage (rope or otherwise) but more for purposes of restriction than pain or discomfort - light bondage, if you want to call it that. - Creampies - Facials - Fucking Machines - Squirting - Mild humiliation (I do have a bit of an interest in omorashi/desperation wetting) - School uniform - Curly hair, Freckles, Redheads/Gingers (I think basically "cutie/sweet"! )
I'm **not** interested in anything that inflicts pain or torture, nor am I interested in any watersports.
My first fetish thoughts came about with the pie fights on television when the woman in a nice outfit was pied. My first non WAM fetish was short skirts and peeks up the skirt. I was a child of the late sixties early seventies when mini and micro mini skirts were a thing. Down blouse was my next fetish. It is WAM related, but seeing the woman staying clean in a food / pie fight till the very end then getting destroyed is another fetish. That went on in the early wet tee-shirt videos where there always seemed to be a model who did not want to show anything then rip off the shirt to possibly win when all other contestants did. Sort of the reluctant participant. Shiny clothing has always been a turn on. Clothes destruction came after that. Models who acknowledge that they are making viewers wank (not necessarily JOI but do not object to it) is fun. Women getting undressed by other people (male or female) Strip poker web sites.
Hey guys, I wanted to come back to this thread and say thanks for commenting. I started it so many month ago more as an exploration to see if there were any non-wam trends that stuck out among us.
The purpose was to guide me as I develop UMD Fetish, which is our non-wam sister site that's linked to UMD. It's live now and we've got a number of UMD visitors and producers over there strutting their non-wam stuff. It's also got Groups like UMD has, but for general fetishes. Anyone interested, check it out at https://fetish.umd.net.
This thread is still live and I'll continue referencing it for ideas.
Peace, Messmaster
Stay messy, my friends
4/13/24, 4:55pm: This post won't bump the thread to the top.
i started with girls wetlook (is still my no.1) then high heels, wet high heels, messy high heels, and now cross dressing wet and messy. love this forum! keep on! m. added some pictures of my sessions. i always start with the heels, but then i put the camera away to enjoy the rest... (and my fingers get sticky, dont want to mess my camera)
Tight PVC and latex for me, especially for getting slimy inside and out. Cross dressing, including wearing girly stuff visible in an unbuttoned shirt in public and seeing if people notice. Wetsuits are also fun - I had a great wam session with a buddy in really tight wetsuits, injecting cartons of custard into them
I love sweat, and stuffing my face into a man's stinking armpits and licking them clean. I love sweating myself and massaging it into my skin.
My favourite is golden showers - heaven is having two cocks at my face with one giving me a white fascial while the other a hot golden shower.
I also love not washing clothes after messy fun and putting them back on to get messier - my prized possession is a pair of ripped white jeans that are all yellow from dried pee and cum collected for more than 5 years. The aroma gets me going every time.
Clothes ripping too. I had a sexy encounter with a transvestite once who wanted me to rip his tights off to get closer, and I tore them off great glee, hungry to reach his treasures.
I love licking people starting with their feet and working upwards. Similarly biting and being bitten all over - it takes great control and trust not to over-do it, which is part of the fun, but it's incredibly intimate.
Getting wet in bed - I can't really afford to trash my bed (though done it in the past) but in hot weather get in a plastic liner and get wet in sweat, pee and tip bottles of water in and get blissed out from wallowing under the covers in wet clothes.
Men in tight jeans and unbuttoned shirts - can't see enough of that.
I get really horny in hot humid weather and love walking or cycling in the rain when it's hot - a good excuse for getting away with clothes wetting in public. I once got so horny cycling in a thin shirt I had to divert into a field and lay in the soaking grass behind a hedge in the rain for a good j.o. before continuing.
Having sex outside, especially if it includes dampness - I once had a nice clothed session with a guy in long dewy grass at twilight, and once I was cruising by a river and wading through the water with my shoes and jeans on really got me in the mood.
as i was discussing with a friend the other day, i have been and still am pretty "vanilla" when it comes to stuff besides wam. i stumbled upon wam and fell in love. first time ever. i was nervous about the first minute and it was like,i had been doing it forever.
now, it has become a huge part of my life! i am wanting to try out new stuff. explore new fetishes and the way i found out about wam was doing my first set for wambabes so, I am opening myself up to trying new fetishes (hey, you gotta try something once, right?) bc i have no idea where i would be without wam...and i would love to try all kinds of new stuff and see what I really get into!
i have a very strong wam encasement fetish but i would like to see how far that encasement fetish goes...if it is just with wam materials or other things....i mean, i just got my first TOY just a few years ago! so, i am very new to outside fetishes but i have been wanting to try new stuff and the only way to see if i like it, is to try it!! so, email me if you have an idea in mind of something you wanna see bc i have been trying to put this out there for a while that i wanna try some new stuff. I am really wanting to try out latex wear, like full on latex. being dom. heels, boots (i love boots) bondage ( i really wanna know more about that and DO more of that....) and i wanna hear stuff you would like to see me do. nothing is too strange! i just did a custom for someone that some ppl would be like "whaaaaat??!!" but it was actually VERY arousing. its something you DO NOT see everyday and i really got a kick out of it. email me at justaskthecheat@gmail.com if you wanna help me find some new kinks to get into!
So many now: Uniforms & costumes Stockings & overknee socks Tight dresses High heels & boots I love seeing girls in this or being dressed myself, in that case like full make up and wig Im submissive and love bondage too Humiliation and nasty messes also go down a treat Recently like seeing girls wearing stockings in public, girl riding her bike in front of me the other day, she stood up and revealed she was wearing stockings, I nearly crashed!